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December 2, 2018, 8:29 PM

The Good News in December, 2018 ~ A Message from the Pastor


Heather, Kim, Sally, Scarlett, David, and I sat down November 27th and planned out and talked through seven worship services – Advent 1 Hanging of the Greens, Advent 2, Advent 3 Lessons and Carols, Blue Christmas, Advent 4 with the young folks and a baptism, Christmas Eve 3 p.m., and Christmas Eve 5 p.m. After all of that, we feel like we are ready to start the New Year…
But alas, such is this time of year. We all have places to decorate, presents to buy, then wrap, people to visit, carols to sing, football and basketball games to watch, and parties galore. Society glorifies busyness when Christians are told to glorify God. Personally, at some level, are we afraid we might miss one thing, so we attempt to do everything? In all of this, our worry probably should be that we will miss His Presence. How then do we each deal with the verse, “Be still and know that I am God”?
Please find time in the busyness to practice some spiritual healthiness.
Genesis 3:8 tells of God walking in the garden at the time of the evening breeze. I am sure He would enjoy your company if you weren’t too busy.
Exodus 26:11 reminds us that God walks among us. How do you look for Him instead of the next agenda item?
Isaiah 9:2 acknowledges that people who live in darkness have seen a great light. How do you take time to differentiate between the tacky lights and the great light?
1 Samuel 10:26 shows where God has touched men’s hearts. Have you made time and contemplated what that means to you?
God had time to send his Son Jesus to seek us out and save us for eternity and give us the Comforter while we walk this earth. That really sounds like a relationship worth investing time in, even if we had to pause some of the busyness…
Merry Christmas!!




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September 3, 2018, 4:04 PM

The Good News in September, 2018 ~ A Message from the Pastor


It seems like I write one of these columns every week. Every time I turn around Sally is asking for another one. “Tom, I am certainly not pushing, but it IS time for the newsletter to go out.” I promise her to get one ahead and well, that never happens either.

What have I done in the previous paragraph? Is it exaggeration almost to the point of hyperbole? Is it complaining? Is it whining? Is it being a drama “king”? Probably YES to each of those last four questions. So here, in a quarter of a page, I have focused on one simple thing I have to do today, and actually, may have caused anxiety in the reader.

I neglected to tell you that I slept well last night, to tell you that I had a magnificent breakfast, to tell you I drove to work safely, to tell you one of my friends was very kind to me, to tell you about the man who encouraged me so much in a simple casual conversation, to tell you that my mother posted a picture of her parents on their wedding day that simply flooded my heart with a plethora of amazing memories of two people who showed me how much they dearly loved me. Should I continue or are you getting the picture? I complain about one small trying thing when I have a multitude of amazing things going on in my life! Isn’t it amazing how we present ourselves? We have so much good, but we talk about our fears, frustrations, or obstacles and not the love which fills our heart.

Our image, character, nature is too often narrowly defined by the small slices of life that others observe in our life. “By your fruit you shall be known.”

So, what if, for 30 days, all we talked about was how good God had been to us? What if, for everyone we talk to, we conveyed a loving heart of God based on the words we used?

What would people start to think about you? What would people start to think about Christians? What would people start to believe about Christians? Who might want to follow you to church simply because of your gospel words?

Rev. Tom Ficklin




July 28, 2018, 1:28 PM

The Good News in August, 2018 ~ A Message from the Pastor


There is an article being written about our church. It tells our story, specifically the story of our move, except that it is really not about our move. It is about how a group of people who love each other and were willing to listen to God, and who actually found the strength of faith to take a chance.
I am not sure that is how we would characterize the emotionality of the winter of 2017; it seemed much too emotionally raw at that point to sound that good.
I am not sure that is how we would characterize the sense of frustration we felt in the spring and summer of 2017 in sorting through the potential choices that could potentially lay ahead of us, and discounting most of them away.
I am not sure that is how we would characterize the sense of relief we felt in the fall of 2017 when we met with The Virginia Baptist Foundation and they thought they could take an old thing and adapt it to a new thing. We were going to attempt to do something that no other Baptist church had ever done.
I am not sure that is how we would characterize the late fall of 2017 when all we felt was the anxiety of having to move everything we had or the strong sense of relief when Woodland Heights offered us space or the supreme celebration we felt on December 31, 2017.
I am not sure that is how we would characterize the winter of 2018 when we were in the new space feeling relieved that we did not have a myriad of things to fix every week in an aging building.
BUT, when you put that whole story together, that underlined sentence makes perfect sense. Our lives are like that. When we focus on small segments of time, our emotions are very different than when we look at the overarching thread of who we are and what we are about and who we belong to. Please, don’t ever get lost in the emotions of the everyday without remembering God has His own grand story, which includes
Y O U!
Reverend Tom Ficklin




July 28, 2018, 1:27 PM



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